Try a slow-burn sex position

After all that buildup, your man will be aroused like crazy and want to have sex ASAP. So initiate a position that will help delay his orgasm, such as side-by-side or woman-on-top, where you'll have the greatest degree of control over his depth and pace.

When you know you absolutely can't hold back any longer, steadily increase the speed and intensity of your movements until you reach an orgasm. Whether you climax simultaneously or at different times, you'll each feel it reverberate throughout your entire body. See, good things really do come to those who wait.

Enjoy hot massage

Consider giving each other sensual rubdowns. The trick to making the experience excruciatingly sexy is to engage both erogenous and nonerogenous zones.

Have a steamy shower together

Before hitting the sheets, lead him into the bathroom and indulge in a long shower. The warm water relaxes you, priming you for more intense arousal. Take your time massaging soap onto one another's bodies and shampooing each other's hair to awaken nerve endings. After getting all sudsy, embrace, and rub your hands over his back and butt, enjoying the slippery sensation of skinto-skin contact. Spend some time making out too. It's one of the first activities to get tossed by the wayside when you're rushing to have sex, so savour this opportunity to kiss deeply. When things reach a fever pitch of excitement, pry yourselves apart, then rinse and dry off.

Excite him in advance

Send him a naughty text early in the day-a line like "Save your energy....You're really gonna need it later" should do the trick. Then, while the two of you are out for dinner or drinks, reveal something sexy you want to try later and have him do the same. Sharing your desires with each other ensures you're on the same page mentally (and later physically) and also helps you connect on an emotional level.

Tease him before the main scene

Instead of viewing clothes as obstacles that need to be shed ASAP, use them as seduction tools. Prolong the disrobing process by taking turns stripping off each other's bodies one by one. Lift the bottom of his shirt to expose his lower abs, and run your tongue all over it. Switch between tender moves and wild ones, like directing him to remove your underwear using only his teeth. You'll probably be so turned on by this point that you'll want to fast-forward to intercourse. Resist the temptation. Taking things down a notch and then building the arousal back up once more increases blood flow to your genitals.

OK, let's get it straight and quick: Majority of men crave quickies only a few times a week - max - and 65 percent want longer sack sessions to last at least 45 minutes. There is, of course, one practical matter that needs to be addressed: How to contain a man's excitement in order to extend the play. Basically, what do you do to make your man happy in the bed? We give you some tips.